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The Very Real Pain of Having Trump Supporters as Parents
Their political views have driven a wedge between us

It’s challenging to begin this piece without bashing conservatives in a brazen anecdote that references Fox News — but I’ll refrain for now, because the conservatives I’m talking about are my parents.
In my family of six, it’s just my sister and I seated at the liberal end of the table. I wish it was different. I wish we could talk about politics at family gatherings, commiserating in disgust at the latest scum to come from Trump’s Twitter account or making fun of the fly that landed on Mike Pence’s head in that debate (a conversation topic that could surely last an entire meal).
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Instead, dinners have resulted in the scattering and yelling of siblings and parents when we’ve broached the topic, with tears and disgust from both sides. Because of these blowups in which my sister and I are against everyone else, we’ve implemented a No-Political-Conversations-at-Dinner boundary. Closely following this rule was the Political-Meme-On-Instagram-Ban of 2016 in which my father officially became banned from sending my sister and me political memes on social media.